Become a New Man!

Learn to unlearn. Live with heart, make money with mind. Live in the moment. Love, laugh, play. Awaken the child within you…

I am writing this post in a coffee shop of Ahmedabad. The morning of the first day of the week could not have been better than this. Away from the sounds, alone rejoicing, and sipping the coffee with the shape of a heart. It is going to be a long post. Please be patient if you are interested in reading the new way of life which consists of deep insights of living practically and with heart. It is deeply inspired by the book, “The book of Man” by Osho. I have tried to highlight and format with colours to keep it interesting. So here it goes, read this post as a child, with your inner being, forgetting what you have learned. 

The man here is not the masculine or feminine one. It is both, everyone is a man and a woman because we have originated from both of our parents. From what we have been conditioned, men and women are never friends. They are polar opposites. It’s all the dormant qualities in us, which we see in the opposite sex that we start liking each other.

Always a man to a woman relationship is very different, there are disagreements, there is its own beauty in it because the thought process is opposite. Naturally, women are intuitive and men run behind the facts. Women are more loving and superior. Because of a man’s feminine part he starts valuing a woman and not see her as a competition and a woman’s masculine part makes her thrive hard to be independent and not depend on anyone else.

The duality is the part of nature. We need to accept it and not be ashamed of anything about it. Nature has made us this way that a man cannot be a man for 24 hours a day and vice versa. It is the society which has taught us the wrong way of being only what we are physical. It also creates humongous hindrances in the relationships. Only the circumference meet. Not the inner being of opposite sexes and there arises the conflict. You are doomed before even knowing how. Boom!

Why in this society, men are not allowed to cry? If we were not supposed to cry, we would not be having tears glands, if we were not supposed to mate, we would not be sexual beings.

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Woman- the struggle, liberation, and love.

What we need in today’s world to understand each other.

I was shocked to see the response in the last one year you guys have given me. Just went to the statistics and found so many views throughout the globe. Thank you so much for the love. It’s been a year that I haven’t post anything, I am sure, you guys have waited for long, but the wait is over now. haha. (trying to feel important). I have realized how writing makes me feel closer to myself, my soul, and makes me feel better every day. How contributing my bit allows me to spread positivism and smiles. Some might think it is to gain attention, some might understand what I am trying to say, the latter ones connect with writing, different passions, hobbies. How it makes us feel energetic and comes naturally, despite different phases of life.

The topic of the day is, ‘woman’. I am open to the opinions formed by the audience, because you are not entitled to believe my words or what this post talks about.

Recently I got the opportunity to swim in the words of “The book of Woman”, by Osho. The book talks freely about how men has given hard time to women in past and till date. How women are already superior to men in various ways before even trying to prove themselves equal to men. He enlightens how men and women cannot be equal or unequal because both of them are unique and polar opposites.
One is more compassionate, loving, sentimental and another logical, stupid, driven by facts and tries to believe in all that is formed by humans. He thinks that woman’s liberation movement has taken a wrong turn, they are trying to prove themselves equal to men.  Women have been treated as slaves in the past, because they haven’t been allowed any freedom, they haven’t got any opportunity to be independent. Their work was consigned to give birth to children only.

Due to dominance and ego of men, today the world is in crisis as women are bound towards taking revenge instead of focusing on their strengths, they are more into working their weaknesses, and in the process becoming more of man and losing their grace. What world needs today is the men to realize they have become far more masculine because of the dominance. We suffer through inferior complexities and treat women as servants, slaves. We need to be more feminine by understanding the other sex, how both of us are incomplete without each other but not at the cost of possessing her, or creating a bondage, commitment but through unconditional empathy and love.

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