Become a New Man!

Learn to unlearn. Live with heart, make money with mind. Live in the moment. Love, laugh, play. Awaken the child within you…

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I am writing this post in a coffee shop of Ahmedabad. The morning of the first day of the week could not have been better than this. Away from the sounds, alone rejoicing, and sipping the coffee with the shape of a heart. It is going to be a long post. Please be patient if you are interested in reading the new way of life which consists of deep insights of living practically and with heart. It is deeply inspired by the book, “The book of Man” by Osho. I have tried to highlight and format with colours to keep it interesting. So here it goes, read this post as a child, with your inner being, forgetting what you have learned. 

The man here is not the masculine or feminine one. It is both, everyone is a man and a woman because we have originated from both of our parents. From what we have been conditioned, men and women are never friends. They are polar opposites. It’s all the dormant qualities in us, which we see in the opposite sex that we start liking each other.

Always a man to a woman relationship is very different, there are disagreements, there is its own beauty in it because the thought process is opposite. Naturally, women are intuitive and men run behind the facts. Women are more loving and superior. Because of a man’s feminine part he starts valuing a woman and not see her as a competition and a woman’s masculine part makes her thrive hard to be independent and not depend on anyone else.

The duality is the part of nature. We need to accept it and not be ashamed of anything about it. Nature has made us this way that a man cannot be a man for 24 hours a day and vice versa. It is the society which has taught us the wrong way of being only what we are physical. It also creates humongous hindrances in the relationships. Only the circumference meet. Not the inner being of opposite sexes and there arises the conflict. You are doomed before even knowing how. Boom!

Why in this society, men are not allowed to cry? If we were not supposed to cry, we would not be having tears glands, if we were not supposed to mate, we would not be sexual beings.

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Woman- the struggle, liberation, and love.

What we need in today’s world to understand each other.

I was shocked to see the response in the last one year you guys have given me. Just went to the statistics and found so many views throughout the globe. Thank you so much for the love. It’s been a year that I haven’t post anything, I am sure, you guys have waited for long, but the wait is over now. haha. (trying to feel important). I have realized how writing makes me feel closer to myself, my soul, and makes me feel better every day. How contributing my bit allows me to spread positivism and smiles. Some might think it is to gain attention, some might understand what I am trying to say, the latter ones connect with writing, different passions, hobbies. How it makes us feel energetic and comes naturally, despite different phases of life.

The topic of the day is, ‘woman’. I am open to the opinions formed by the audience, because you are not entitled to believe my words or what this post talks about.

Recently I got the opportunity to swim in the words of “The book of Woman”, by Osho. The book talks freely about how men has given hard time to women in past and till date. How women are already superior to men in various ways before even trying to prove themselves equal to men. He enlightens how men and women cannot be equal or unequal because both of them are unique and polar opposites.
One is more compassionate, loving, sentimental and another logical, stupid, driven by facts and tries to believe in all that is formed by humans. He thinks that woman’s liberation movement has taken a wrong turn, they are trying to prove themselves equal to men.  Women have been treated as slaves in the past, because they haven’t been allowed any freedom, they haven’t got any opportunity to be independent. Their work was consigned to give birth to children only.

Due to dominance and ego of men, today the world is in crisis as women are bound towards taking revenge instead of focusing on their strengths, they are more into working their weaknesses, and in the process becoming more of man and losing their grace. What world needs today is the men to realize they have become far more masculine because of the dominance. We suffer through inferior complexities and treat women as servants, slaves. We need to be more feminine by understanding the other sex, how both of us are incomplete without each other but not at the cost of possessing her, or creating a bondage, commitment but through unconditional empathy and love.

Continue reading “Woman- the struggle, liberation, and love.”

Men and Women are Different yet Perfect…

After almost a month, I am back to discuss a topic which has not only interested me but also increased the curiosity of millions. Rather, let me try to put it this way, It is not only God which knows how to deal with Women. Yes, today’s topic is intriguing and fun to understand, much relatable than the previous posts. I am going to illustrate some facts which sound so simple and they exist in our everyday lives in tiny bits, however, they go unnoticed by our consciousness.

“Why Men and Women never understand each other completely and how understanding each other can eliminate or reduce the stress to the maximum.”

Why should you read ahead? I think, we deal with the other Gender for the majority of our life, it would serve as an eye opener and create accord in relationships, friendships at school, colleges, offices, homes. Continue reading “Men and Women are Different yet Perfect…”

The Art of Giving

“We make a living by what we get but we make a life by what we give.”- Winston Churchill. What you give comes back. What is this giving? Almost everyone in his/her life might have wondered what exactly do we give and what can be considered as giving.

 Lets look at this.

“An act performed without any selfish desire, and  with no expectation of return is a giving. Serving people selflessly.”

When you gift a friend without expecting praise or a return gift. When you wish well to others without expecting them to do it for you. When you perform a task without an expectation of thank you in return. When you pray for others without your own rewards.

Giving is not to receive, perhaps, doing it with conscience of no reward. We know, when we give something with the mindset of not receiving awards for it, universe rewards abundantly. That’s the Law of LIFE, Law of GIVING. Continue reading “The Art of Giving”

Art of Making Money

What would you do, if you win 1,00,000 dollars while reading this post?

80% of us will spend this money in a span of a month. 16% will manage to save mere 1000 dollars. Only 4% will multiply the amount by utilizing the power of their inner genius, Financial Intelligence.

Thousands of people who win lotteries become poor again in no time due to this human behaviour. Majority of us rely on “working for money, instead of money working for us.”

We go to school, get educated, a good pay job, and wait for promotion to make money. We forget to realize, harder we work, more taxes we pay, our expenses rise, luxuries increase with the pay. We buy a car, house with our hard-earned money. That’s how an average person spends money and lives his life, dreading for more and more. Wanting to improve his lifestyle and work hard each day for someone else. We forget to mind our business in this process, business of making money work for us instead of working for money. And often we get trapped in the rat race where we never have enough money because of our spending patterns.

Robert Kiyosaki, author of bestseller, “Rich Dad Poor Dad”, describes how understanding of assets, liabilities, basic investing can ensure to make anybody Rich. Continue reading “Art of Making Money”

School Teenage days- Story of Peer Pressure, Victory

Source: School Teenage days- Story of Peer Pressure, Victory

Hi everyone. This is my first post on Bayart. And I will be sharing a very personal experience of my teenage years, which I spent studying in a school of India. DPS, Gandhidham, Gujarat (A state in western part of India).

I write about serenity (nature), motivation, peaceful mind, faith. I believe to inspire and pass my message to make people happy through my example, and the stories, lessons from various books to back them authenticity for public, friends.

Have a look, please share your views. Thanks 🙂

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Today while meditating inside the park as usual, I imagined going back to the school where I spent my teenage years conquering dreams, making myself self-confident, most importantly overcoming my fears and handling the peer pressure, aggression, fights. My  8th grade-12th grade years not only shaped me positively but also gave me a practical exposure of life which was waiting for me ahead.

Being one of the rare sports overall, average academic student, I always gave a tough competition on field be it cricket, basketball, or my favourite, athletics. I was titled as Superman by my Geography teacher and ‘Bolt’ by one of my classmate. Continue reading “School Teenage days- Story of Peer Pressure, Victory”

How to get Started towards your Dream?

American Novelist, George RR Martin quotes, “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies, the man who doesn’t read only lives one.”

Books tell you stories, books give you wisdom, and books are your best friends. They lift you, make you smile, give goosebumps, help you regain your emotional side. They provide the emotional shift required to persevere, mental toughness to deal with changes.

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“Books are mirrors: You only see in them what you already have inside you.” – Carlos Ruiz, Spanish Novelist. It is true that we are born with umpteen potential. Books provide you ways so that we can awaken our thoughts. We just need to realize and pursue our talents. With practice we keep getting better.

Books provide solutions to all your problems. Whatever we experience or go through has already been experienced, tackled in history. And solutions are in the books of wisdom, books by visionaries, leaders, masters in their field. Whether be it any area, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual health, management. They might not serve you things as on the plate but provide  you ways to deal with things as your nature permits. Continue reading “How to get Started towards your Dream?”

Last 3 weeks Journey, Life is Awesome!

Hi everyone. I wish and pray that each of you reading this post is in good health, wealth, and has a feeling of being successful in your pursuit of life. I will share about my experience today about how to handle a new change and make good habits.

I completed 3 weeks of a new daily routine this 17th Aug. Waking up at 6 am for 80% of these 21 days. Realized how it became a habit now. During meditation I focused on how my life changed emotionally, physically, spiritually in these days. The smaller good actions started bringing effective positive results to me and filled me with happiness.

I reflected on some incidents. To state a few, Dad became so positive with his dealings and suggestions, leadership. Go through this post if you haven’t read my blog from beginningEarly Morning Adventure- 28th July 2016

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Be your own Leader

“Write every quote in your journal which inspires you. Make your own thoughts out of them, formulate them, and future will know them as your quotes someday.”

Imagine more than anybody could. Live more than yourself would. Laugh more than your desires fulfilled. Appreciate more than you ever did. Love more than the love stories known. Do more and more such that more is defined by you.

“Why do I race? I am the champion before the race. That’s the belief I go on field that I will chase each one to finish the line.” The faster than light, Usain Bolt said proudly.

Leadership is about expressing our best as human beings. Use that inner leader not just to lift your life but also to elevate the lives of all those around you. It is inspiring people to do their best in their ability. It’s about realizing the potential within self. To be a leader become a self leader first. Awaken that inner born talent. It is not just about motivating or inspiring others. It is about the first step we take to become a better version of ourselves. Continue reading “Be your own Leader”

Silence Speaks the Best!

“When it’s dark enough, you can see the stars. Amidst the darkness, shines the brightest star.”

Its magical when those trees wave back, leaves take a breath, and the birds sing melodiously at the top of the trees.

 “It is true that silence speaks.”

Allow that sun, cloud, moon, and rain to talk with you in this serenity. When the surroundings speak. The calmness stills. The quietness fills. Silence is serene. It leaves you at peace.

It is said, “When you have control over your thoughts, you have control over your life.” Everyone is born awesome with powers. We have to just remember them not actually improve on anything else.

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